I am shamelessly stealing that phrase from Brenda Dayne for the title of this post. In the midst of the Holiday Hullabaloo I took some time out to listen to Cast-on to hear Brenda talking about her Italian holiday. Her story of watching a local knitter and of learning a new stitch pattern then later being able to pass it on to other local knitters touched my heart. Then I read in Knitty. I could so easily picture myself travelling somewhere, knitting companionably with someone regardless of language or culture. That is the joy, the universal language of knitters.
I try regularly to explain to my family and friends why I am never without something to knit. Partly it's because I can't stand to have my hands quiet. I need the motion of my fingers and wrists. Sometimes that movement is soothing and at other times stimulating. Meetings and lectures are rarely pleasant or productive experiences for me without my needles in hand. I may only complete a round or two on a sock but that tactile stimulation helps me to focus on what I need to be learning or remembering. Partly it's because of the people I meet. A child will come to watch my fingers waving about and the needle tips flash. An elderly woman will pause to look and smile, then shake her head because, for her, knitting was work. A gentleman will ask how I do that, and tell me a story about his mother, or his wife, or even himself knitting during the war. A younger woman will look at me, shake her head, and tell me how she could never do such a thing because she just doesn't have the time but it looks nice. Knitting makes me open and approachable, available to listen.
Once in a while the language of knitting takes over. Tentative hands take the needles from mine. Awkward fingers try a few stitches. Concentration knits the brows together, and once in a while the tip of a tongue peeks out with the effort of learning. Then a slow smile gradually begins to form. Eyes begin to glitter. Fingers move a bit more surely. A young student of mine recently asked me to teach him how to knit. He's 14. Bright and capable, with an assortment of talents but easily bored and talkative in class. He came to me a little while ago asking if I could teach him to knit. He wanted to make a hat. It wasn't hard to find a spare pair of straight needles and his mom picked up a ball of acrylic in hot pink. There were a couple of false starts and some frogging. Eventually we rewound the ball as a double strand and got bigger needles. Visible progress is immensely rewarding and soon he was knitting away - in class - much to the pleasure of his teachers. You see, knitting takes up just enough of his active mind that he has to focus but no so much that he can't listen. With needles in hand, his mouth closes and his body stills. The other students readily recognized the difference and will now suggest to him that he should get out his knitting so they can work! A few of them have shyly told me that they too know how to knit, and would I mind helping them? The language of knitting makes it ok to be different, to sit quietly, to take pride in accomplishment, to share a craft.
Fiber magic. It can overcome anyone at the oddest of times. For New Year's Eve we had a few friends over. Nothing spectacular or large, just a few friends to share the evening with. My spinning wheel was sitting in it's corner out of the way when my friend noticed it and asked if I could use it. I told her yes, I spin as well as knit, although with far less skill. She asked if she could try. Of course there were drop spindles and fiber ready to hand and before too long she had learned the basics of drafting on the drop spindle and was really eager to try the wheel. A little while, a few false starts and broken threads, a great deal of smiles and laughter, and she was spinning. Naturally, Africa had to give it a try as well. I wouldn't go so far as to say he actually spun yarn, but he sure was fabulous at treadling. The language of fiber makes it ok to take a risk and try something new, to laugh at mistakes, and to be a bit childlike again.
This language of knitting is a global language. It crosses barriers of time, distance, and culture with ease. I am endlessly fascinated by the range of fiber connections around the world. Knitters Without Borders/Tricoteuses Sans Frontiers has raised over half a million dollars for Medecins Sans Frontiers/Doctors Without Borders. The Dulann Project (now ended) send thousands of hand knit hats, mittens, sweaters, and socks to Mongolia. The Red Scarf Project was overwhelmed by the generosity of knitters and had to actually set limits on donation sizes so that they could actually manage it all. Afghan squares, washcloths, premie hats, and prayer shawls play a role in most knitter's lives at one point or another. Knitters are generosity personified. All we need is somewhere to send it and we'll dive into the stash for something perfect, spend hours knitting, and happily mail the FO into the wild blue yonder. We love to knit for each other too. Sometimes the only time a knitter will recieve a hand knit is if he or she takes part in an exchange of some sort. I adore my Sockapalooza socks partly because they are the only handknits I own that did not come from my own needles. Someone out there spent time choosing pattern and yarn, working thousands of tiny and intricate stitches, and creating a package of goodies to go with them. A stranger did that for me! No, not a Stranger at all. A Knitter. A Friend.
There is a map over there in the right sidebar. It's a world map covered with red dots. Each dot represents a visit (or several visits) to this blog from a specific IP address. Visitors have found Knit Two Together literally from every continent except for Antarctica. It wouldn't entirely surprise me to one day find out that a researcher has spent part of an Antarctic sojourn, knitting in hand, and surfing knit blogs. Between May 8 and December 30, 2007 there were 10, 533 visits all of which are represented on that map. People have hit this little blog from 62 countries around the world.
NORTH AMERICA
(8,322 visits)
Canada
British Columbia
Alberta
Saskatchewan
Manitoba
Ontario
Quebec
New Brunswick
Nova Scotia
Newfoundland
and Labrador
Yukon Territory
Northwest Territories
United States
Mexico
CENTRAL AND SOUTH AMERICA (40 visits)
Guatemala
Costa Rica
Venezuela
Peru
Chile
Brazil
Uruguay
AFRICA
Egypt
Sudan
South Africa
Uganda
Kenya
Tanzania
Isreal
Saudi Arabia
Yemen
United Arab Emirates
AUSTRALIA
(436 visits)
New Zealand
ASIA
(155 visits)
Japan
S. Korea
Taiwan
Phillipines
Thailand
Malaysia
Turkey
Armenia
China
Mongolia
India
Russia
EUROPE
(1,614 visits)
Norway
Sweden
Finland
Iceland
United Kingdom
(Faroe Islands
,
UK
)
Ireland
Spain
Portugal
France
Italy
Greece
Denmark
Belgium
The Netherlands
Switzerland
Austria
Germany
Croatia
Bulgaria
Romania
Serbia
Hungary
Poland
Latvia
Belarus
Estonia
Ukraine
Only a rare few ever leave comments. Looking at this list I can see why. The range of culture and language is enormous. How do they find me? What do they see? Do they return or just flick past? The language of knitting has allowed me to be part of this world wide communication. Through knitting and blogging about it I am part of something global and yet as small and insignificant as a baby sock. Thank you for being a part of the web of fiber connection. I know that the new year will bring many more opportunities to share through knitting. The language of knitting allows me to belong, to find peace, to communicate, to write, to give, to celebrate. May it do the same for you. Happy New Year.